Fussy Eating

Fussy eating is common in children under 5—it’s just a phase! Check out some of our tips below on how to get through it.

A balanced diet is the key to your little one’s growth, energy, and brainpower! 

🍗 Protein helps them grow strong. 

🥦 Fruits and veggies fuel their immune system. 

🥣 Whole grains keep their energy levels up! 

Do you ever find it hard to choose what you’re having for dinner?  Break it down into 4 steps to ensure your family is getting everything they need from their food.

  1. Choose a starchy carbohydrate 
    (bread, pasta, pitta, rice, potatoes, wraps) 
  1. Choose a lean protein  
    (chicken, chickpeas, eggs, fish, milk, yogurt, lentils) 

  1. Choose at least 2 different fruit or vegetables to offer on the family plate. Make it as colourful as possible!  

  1. Accessorise with flavours! Experiment with fresh and dried herbs, flavourings such as garlic and ginger, grate some cheese!  

 


Fussy eating is common in children under 5—it’s just a phase!  

Here’s why it happens: 

  • They're exploring independence. 

  • Taste buds are developing. 

  • They love routine (even with food). 

Make food fun! 

Children are more likely to eat when meals look exciting.

Use bright, colourful ingredients. 
Arrange food into shapes or faces. 
Involve them in plating their food! 

Children love to be involved! ‍

Let them: 

🧀 Sprinkle cheese on pizza. 

🫑 Arrange veggies on their plate. 

🥣 Mix batter or sauces. 

When children help, they’re more excited to eat.

 


Introduce new foods

  • Offer small portions alongside familiar favourites. 

  • Be patient—it can take 10-20 tries before children accept a new taste! 
    Keep calm and keep trying. 💪  

 

Repetition is key! 

Try offering the same food in different ways:

Raw carrot sticks. 
Grated carrot. 
Carrot soup or puree. 

Switching up textures and flavours makes a difference!  


Healthy mealtime habits - children thrive on routine!  

Serve meals and snacks at regular times. 
Avoid letting them graze all day. 
Sit together as a family during meals—it helps children feel secure.

Small changes can make a big difference!  

 

It’s okay if they don’t eat it all. 

  • Avoid pressuring or forcing bites. 

  • Encourage exploration—touching, smelling, and licking are wins too! 


Celebrate the small wins!

Did they try a bite of broccoli? Yay! 
Did they sit through the meal without fussing? Amazing! 

Positive reinforcement builds confidence. 

The Mason Jar Reward System: A Fun Way to Encourage Positive Behaviour!  

How it Works: 

1️⃣ Choose a Goal – Decide on behaviours you want to encourage (e.g. sitting at the dinner table, having something new on their plate, trying the new food). 

2️ Set Up the Jar – Label a mason jar with your child’s name or decorate it together for extra excitement.   

3️ Use Small Rewards – Fill the jar with marbles, pom-poms, or beads each time they demonstrate the desired behaviour.   

4️ Celebrate Progress – Once the jar is full, let them choose a small reward (extra playtime, a fun outing, or a special toy).   

   

Why It Works:  

Teaches children that positive actions lead to positive outcomes.   

Provides a visual representation of their progress, keeping them motivated.   

Encourages consistency and responsibility in a fun and engaging way. 


Useful resources:

https://www.nhs.uk/start-for-life/baby/weaning/  

https://infantandtoddlerforum.org/  

https://www.childfeedingguide.co.uk/tips/tips-tools/   

If you have any concerns or would like support with your child’s eating habits, please contact your SSAFA Health Visitor or GP.